We (Edith Hope Fine and Judith Josephson) are the Grammar Patrol. Both of us taught for years and are now writers, with thirty plus books between us, including our two popular grammar guides, Nitty-Gritty Grammar and More Nitty-Gritty Grammar. For close to twenty years, we taught writing and grammar basics and now we blog about grammar for writers.
Whooooooo or Whom?
“Who is it?” “To whom shall I RSVP?” “Who may I ask is calling?
Who and whom can confuse even wise old owls.
Yes, these three examples are correct. In the third, vacuum out the words “may I ask” to get the simplified “Who is calling?”
Who and whom belong to that merry band of interrogative pronouns (along with cousins what, which, and whose) that ask questions. But who and whom are the ones that cause confusion. So whooooo can use who/whom tips? Everyone!
* “Who” is always a subject, either of a sentence or a clause.
Wait a sec. What’s a clause again? A clause is a group of words with both a subject and predicate. A clause can be a complete sentence or an incomplete sentence:
People notice what you wear.
(independent clause) (dependent clause)
(complete sentence) (incomplete sentence)